Quarrels, misunderstanding, stress, disinterest… all this is very common in any relation. Here are some tips from your Life Coach to maintain the loving & long lasting bond with your partner.
1. Replace "I" with "We"
A vehicle can't be driven smoothly unless all its tiers are balanced at same level.
2. Do away with Communication Barrier
"Don't talk about your partner, talk to your partner". Majority of the conflicts don't come to an end just because we don't communicate. Your companion can't read your mind, you need to express.
Talk what you feel, what you expect. And when your spouse expresses, listen to understand not just to respond. Communication is the foundation of good understanding.
3. Trust each other & respect the Privacy
Since you are married or in a relationship doesn't mean you have the right to track your partner all the time. Show your trust in an alliance, don't act like a detective by keeping all the passwords of his/her accounts. Let your spouse have some privacy & respect that boundary.
A Push Strategy never works in love.
4. Resolve your conflicts before going to bed
It's good to have some healthy conflicts but carrying forward an unresolved quarrel to the next day can worsen the situation. Don't just talk while resolving the matter, try to read between the lines. Notice the body language, voice tone, facial expressions, whether the other person seems stressed, sad or frustated.
Put yourself in your partner's shoes, Such emotional attunement will level up your ability to understand the other person, and respond in ways that lead to happy and long-lasting relationships.
5. Balance Between your Personal & Professional Life
Don't be just present physically – remove your tie, get into casuals and feel the home.
Don't let the sourness of your workplace enter the sweetness of your abode. Leave it at the door step!
6. Say the magical words
And yes, don't forget to say "I love you" after waking up and before going to bed to maintain the spark between you.
7. Pay attention on your appearance
Groom yourself for your partner.
8. Go for a Date
Relations are like plants, we need to nurture them with love daily. Don't overflow the water on just one day. They demand nourishment regularly, only then the flower of successful relationship can bloom!
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